2019 was a lesson. Going through a few tough episodes I learned one big thing from
@lifeofjermaine and that’s you are not the center of the universe. Stay with me here.
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I don’t mean in the traditional sense where we think the world revolves around us. I mean when we are so busy blaming ourselves for every bad thing that’s happened it is a very short sighted way to see the world. To think, with all the possible scenarios and variables that can occur, your decisions and your decisions alone are enough to affect the outcome of your life. I have believed for so long that our lives are a consequence of our own actions and for the most part that is true. However, if we think our intentions overrule the universes we are severely mistaken.
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Did you mess up a business deal? Well, a million dollar opportunity passed you by because someone got in an accident on the way to work. Did you lose your significant other to someone else? Well, the love of your life was at the gym on your day off.
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You see how no matter what decisions you make they are a minuscule to the collective decisions of everyone else. So stop beating yourself up. Control what you can and accept what you can’t.